The dictionary defines sex as feelings or behaviour resulting from the urge to gratify the sexual instinct.
Whilst this definition is accurate, it does not fully describe sex. Sex is a very small word that is used to describe a wide and varied range of feelings and activities, but people use the word sex as if we all share the same meaning. Each person thinks of, and experiences, sex differently; each sexual encounter is a different experience.
You are born with a sexuality, and that may change throughout your life depending on whether you have sex, how you have sex, and who you have sex with. How you express yourself sexually, is your sexuality.
Who you express your sexuality with is often determined by your sexual orientation. Only you can decide what your sexual orientation is and whether you choose to use a label; some people like to use a label while others don’t.
Below you will find sexual definitions with brief explanations, this list is not exhaustive.
Female Masturbation/Wanking – touching/rubbing your body in a combination which pleases you sexually
Male Masturbation/Wanking – touching/rubbing your body in a combination which pleases you sexually
Mutual Masturbation/Wanking – two people wanking together or two people wanking each other at the same time
Sex Toys – used to further the sexual excitement and stimulation of a person. These may be purchased, made or adapted for the purpose.
Fisting – using the whole hand to enter a vagina or anus
Tribidism – rubbing the clitoris on the thigh of a person whilst they are doing the same on your thigh
Sexual Voyeurism – enjoying watching another person doing sexual things, either to themselves or others
Feltching – when a person comes into a vagina, mouth, ear, nose, anus, and the cum is then sucked out again
Rainbow Kisses – when a person takes a person’s cum into their mouth and passes it back to the person’s own mouth
Orgasm/Cumming – release after a build up of stimulation or emotional intensity. Each person experiences orgasm differently
Cum – the wetness in the vagina when the person is sexually aroused, especially during orgasm and the fluid that carries semen, released from the penis
Female Ejaculation – the release of fluid from the vagina, this fluid is stored in the para-urethral gland and can be a small or large amount (an external orgasm)
Male Ejaculation – the release of fluid from the penis, this fluid is stored in the testicles and carries semen (an external orgasm)